Thursday 27 February 2014

27 February – Final Week



I am in my final week of work at Sambhavna and it is raining. Not that I think the two are related but it has been something like the wettest winter ever and the coldest.
I remember when I went to live in Greece that it was in the wettest winter for something like 80 years and the following year was the coldest for about 50.
Maybe they ARE related.


On 19 Feb, I wrote in my diary that it seemed as if my final two weeks were going to be a series of ‘Indian’ days as I had another one today! In the end that day, I did 9 sessions but the first two didn’t come, though Sunil, who should have come at 08:35 and had missed a couple of sessions, came at about 11:30 but had to wait until 13:00 as Anwar and Saligram were on time. Amzad also came at the same time – he had missed two sessions also so I had put someone else in his old slot and had to reschedule him for tomorrow. I rather suspect that he had been pain free but the pain has returned, as I could expect if we haven’t had enough sessions to complete fully. So he came along again saying he felt a burning sensation down the right side of his neck. His symptoms go back a year but flared up a week or so ago.
Then I slotted in Sunil and arranged him for 08:30 tomorrow so he can go to work afterwards. Will he come? Then Shabnam came over to say there was a new patient waiting! Shabiha is a very serious case so I hope we can help in the seven days I have remaining. Her MRI report shows neck and lumbar spine problems with disk desiccation and bulging as well as several other issues.
Surprisingly, the next day everyone turned up on time!
This week, my final before I am off to Vietnam on a course and the ‘Indian’ flavour is getting hotter. Not only that but I have had three new patients this week! I’m not sure what I can do with such little time. However one has not even come for his first appointment.
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Aziza said “you have a patient waiting. An old man.” That ‘old man’, I said is a year younger than I am! That set me to thinking about the appearance of people here because this is not the first time for this sort of remark.
What is it that makes some people ‘older’ than others? Often not just in appearance but also in attitude and behaviour? I would guess that poverty has much to do with it, especially here. Then how about expectation? Lifestyle, family and work, nutrition, opportunity and the way s/he is treated?
Maybe there is an entire book in those thoughts.
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Some more things you might not know
·         it was between 3,000 and 15,000 that died on 3 December, depending on who is counting.
·         that at least another 20,000 have died since as a direct result.
·         that many families had only one parent surviving and some families were wiped out.
·         the compensation went to only 573,588 of the victims. About $500 equivalent each.
·         the compensation works out to 3p if spread to all the people who should have received it.
·         these people will suffer* for the rest of their lives. And some of them are still in their early 30s.
·         about the water pollution because toxic chemicals dumped on and around the site have been washed into the ground water source.
·         that these poisonous chemicals and heavy metals are still being washed into the soil and spreading the water pollution by 200 metres every year.
·         that people still have to drink this water.
·         that babies born to parents exposed to the gas or water are several times more likely than babies in the rest of India to have some form of congenital malformation**.
·         that no-one knows when this inheritance will stop. If ever. Probably never.
·         that Dow Chemical bought UCC in 2001 and refuses to accept any liability.
·         that Dow still will not tell the Indian Government the exact gases to which people were exposed to and their effects on the body.


* Health problems include lung and breathing problems, many gynaecological issues including sterility, blindness. Cancer rates are high, diabetes rates are high, asthma rates are high, hypertension (high blood pressure) is high.
And it’s raining lots here!

Wednesday 12 February 2014

12 February – Love Week



 I was looking at the Times of India in English a couple of mornings ago and there was an article about ‘Love Week’. They don’t do just one day on 14th here it would appear. Strange as love doesn’t seem to count for much so far as marriage is concerned!
So, I asked Ritesh, who was reading another paper. He assured me that things are changing and, so called, love matches are becoming more common. What, I asked, about marriages across religion? That is much more difficult, he said with a frown, and not at all common.
I know someone here whose ‘girlfriend’, a Hindi, is being married by her family. He is Moslem. So despite flirtations, or whatever we might call them, going on the family can still rule. I wonder if either family knew of the affair?
Another friend here said that it is getting easier. His family is Christian, though he assured me that he does not believe in god, and he has a girlfriend who is Moslem. He did say that his family was not a problem about it.
So the pattern is very mixed it would seem.
Thorsten went to a wedding while he was here, two sisters he said, both arranged couplings though one with the blessings of the couple who were clearly happy about it but the other sister was definitely not. He said it was sad to see the contrast between them. I am sure that those in favour of arranged marriages would say, ‘wait and see’. On the other side at least we could say they made their own decision and the eventual outcome will also be their own decision.
That, I suppose, is one thing I really have against religion. This idea that because you are of a particular persuasion your children should be also. They have no choice. Race and ethnicity are one thing but religion is entirely different and should, surely, be a choice? Race is about ancestry and genetics; religion is about faith and belief, as well, some would say, philosophy and a way of living.
And I am not writing just about the situation in  India. It is a world-wide issue. In the UK it would be ‘expected’ that the children simply follow the religion of their parents. At least in the early years. And I am certain that all the Sunday Schools don’t teach about all the other religions or about what religion is in the wider philosophical and scientific sense.
It has been argued, with some merit, that to educate or indoctrinate your children into your religion is actually psychological abuse. I see many small children running around here in overtly religious dress – can that be right? And, even at this young age it starts to set up the gender imbalance with the boys going to the Mosque for religious education and the girls, presumably staying at home learning how to make chapatti.
Someone here said they are just building their market!

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We went over the DB Mall again a few days ago, you may recall some of us went to the cinema there a little while ago. This time I had my camera so took a few pictures so you can see the inside of a super mall (or shopping centre in UK terms) here. It is just as horrible as those in UK!

Bruno wanted to price a camera but decided he could get one just as cheaply back home in Portugal. 
Then we went from there to a different cinema, nearer to Sambhavna. It was a romantic comedy and I could not follow it at all! Some of them claimed they got the gist, aided by a brief in the interval from Deven.

I think my brain is not wired for cinema! I have decided that most films (videos) have such short scenes that my brain can’t get around them. The live theatre tends to have longer scenes so maybe that is why I can follow that – and enjoy it of course also. I have the same problem with TV. Anyway, until someone comes up with a better theory on why a Jarvie cannot follow films, I’ll stick with that!